Uncommon Courtesy is the quick slap to the back of the head most people need nowadays. In a world that's more likely to flip the bird than hold the door, it's a reminder of proper behavior. Readers receive a (re-)schooling in manners with lessons split up by situation, then tackled by topic. Each note corrects conduct that's become all too common, like . Bad Behavior: Popping a piece of gum into your mouth midconversation, and stressing your point by snapping it. Courteous Fix: If you're going to have a piece of gum while talking to someone, be sure to offer your companion a piece--and keep your mouth closed as you chew. You want your breath to be fresh. Not your attitude.

Uncommon Courtesy is a reminder that it wasn't always out of place to be polite. AUTHOR: Jennifer M. Wood (New York, NY) is a veteran journalist who's dealt with plenty of rude people in order to get a story. Her ability to remain polite in response to such behavior is one she wishes to share with the world. SELLING POINTS: *The cue we need to be nicer neighbors, more courteous coworkers, friendlier customers, and just downright better human beings *It's a throwback manual with a modern edge as it rights today's wrong behavior *Perfect gift for anyone in need of a minor manner adjustment.