"Sports as an organizing principle for stumbling through life and fatherhood--funny, enchanting and lyrical. Painfully familiar."-- Sports Illustrated "Josh Wilker wants you to believe he has no realm of expertise at all. As a man, a husband, a breadwinner, a first-time father, a onetime college athlete, he's not only never sure of himself; he's often so unsure that he beats himself up over it, literally. But Wilker. once again proves himself the possessor of a particular kind of mastery in his new memoir, Benchwarmer . By fixating on failures -- both his own, personally and as a parent, and those of his beloved sports heroes -- he's crafted a game plan that turns out to be unbeatable."-- The Boston Globe "Josh Wilker wants you to believe he has no realm of expertise at all.
As a man, a husband, a breadwinner, a first-time father, a onetime college athlete, he's not only never sure of himself; he's often so unsure that he beats himself up over it, literally. But Wilker. once again proves himself the possessor of a particular kind of mastery in his new memoir, Benchwarmer . By fixating on failures -- both his own, personally and as a parent, and those of his beloved sports heroes -- he's crafted a game plan that turns out to be unbeatable. If the unexamined life is truly not worth living, Wilker takes its flip side to the extreme. A lifetime of addiction to the minutiae of sports, the box scores, career averages, and endless anecdotal legends, has made him a top-shelf Socratic thinker"-- Publishers Weekly "The delights of this fatherhood confessional are various. Perhaps most striking and unusual is Wilker''s choice of framing his narrative in the form of an almanac. The almanac becomes a moving metaphor for a universal need to organize the chaotic borders of life experience.
This almanac of fatherhood (and other failures) is honest, relatable and humorous--an indispensable read for fathers (and sons) whose joy in life comes not from winning the big game but being alive to witness the beauty of its happening."-- Kirkus Reviews "[Wilker expounds] randomly on his lifelong fandom and new fatherhood.amidst a pantheon of athletic failures, goof-ups, goats, mediocrities, and losers. Most fans will find something in that litany to enjoy."-- Booklist " Benchwarmer is the funniest, saddest, most touching picture of manhood in the 21st century that I have ever read."-- Jonathan Eig, author of Luckiest Man "Saying Josh Wilker writes about sports is like saying Proust wrote about cookies, or Tolstoy about Russia. The courts and ball fields are merely arenas in which he illuminates the entire human experience. Wilker is able to recognize within the ordinary--missed free throws, child rearing, the unheroic challenges of daily life-- the authentically sublime.
Benchwarmer is the best kind of art there is, the kind that makes you delighted to be alive."-- Matthew Specktor, author of American Dream Machine "Josh Wilker and I traded baseball cards and played Little League together. Yet each time I read his moving prose, I learn more about life's journey--his, and that of our generation." -- Buster Olney, senior writer, ESPN " Benchwarmer is a book for anyone who's ever loved sports, or had a kid. It's a book about boys and about men, and you will weep." -- Rob Neyer, Fox Sports "The area where sports and life intersect, in the fan's brain, is like a network of caverns that Josh Wilker is mapping better than any writer since Frederick Exley. In Benchwarmer , he goes spelunking in some of the deepest and darkest of those caves, where he painstakingly discovers that marriage and fatherhood, unlike sports, cannot be measured by wins and losses. This is a book filled with heart and tremendous grit.
" -- Jonathan Miles, author of Dear American Airlines and Want Not.