1 "Success is a good job earning lots of money" Rule 1: Success is what you say it is 2 "Some people are just born lucky" Rule 2: Don''t envy other people 3 "You need the right qualifications" Rule 3: Exams aren''t the be all and end all 4 "Your parents are always right" Rule 4: Don''t expect your parents to be perfect 5 "Your parents are responsible for how you turn out" Rule 5: Give your parents a break 6 "The world is against you" Rule 6: You''re responsible for your own life 7 "We all have an absolute right to be respected" Rule 7: There''s a balance between the right to respect, and tolerance 8 "You can choose your friends but you can''t choose your family" Rule 8: Your siblings should be your best friends for life 9 "Teacher knows best" Rule 9: Getting on at school is not the same as getting on in life 10 "Have something to say for yourself" Rule 10: If you find it hard to talk, try listening 11 "Some people are just difficult" Rule 11: No one chooses to be difficult without a reason 12 "Don''t waste your time on people who aren''t worth it" Rule 12: Suffer fools gladly. Well, suffer them, anyway 13 "You can''t be cheerful if you''re in pain" Rule 13: Pain doesn''t have to make you miserable 14 "Good work speaks for itself" Rule 14: No one at work will know how good you are unless you tell them 15 "Do what it takes to get what you want" Rule 15: Don''t emotionally blackmail people 16 "A place for everything, and everything in its place" Rule 16: It''s not morally superior to be tidy 17 "It matters what other people think" Rule 17: Don''t live for other people''s approval 18 "Give as good as you get" Rule 18: You get what you give 19 "Stick with your own kind" Rule 19: Your friends don''t all need to be like you 20 "The best things in life are free" Rule 20: Everything worth having hurts 21 "You can change people" Rule 21: Don''t try to change people 22 "It''s where you''re going that matters, not where you came from" Rule 22: Be proud of your roots 23 "Friends are for life" Rule 23: Friends come and go 24 "Mistakes are a bad thing" Rule 24: Mistakes can be good 25 "Be a friend to everybody" Rule 25: You don''t have to like everyone 26 ". and everybody will be your friend" Rule 26: . and not everyone will like you 27 "If you don''t like it, tough" 56 Rule 27: Remember, you have a choice 28 "You need to get your chores over with" Rule 28: Life''s all about the little things 29 "Stay true to your dreams" Rule 29: Priorities change over the years 30 "People have a right to know" Rule 30: Know how to keep a secret 31 "Face your fears" Rule 31: Replace the bad thoughts 32 "Make a New Year''s resolution every year" Rule 32: You can''t change habits unless you want to 33 "Respect the elderly" Rule 33: Respect everyone 34 "Look after number one" Rule 34: Helping other people makes you feel good about yourself 35 "If you''re in the firing line, keep your head down" Rule 35: They can''t walk all over you unless you''re lying down 36 "Just ignore the bullies" Rule 36: Don''t let ''em bully you 37 "Think on your feet" Rule 37: Be in control 38 "What you do is more important than why you do it" Rule 38: Be honest with yourself 39 "You can judge a book by its cover" Rule 39: Everyone has a backstory 40 "Put the past behind you" Rule 40: You have to deal with your stuff before you can get on with your life 41 "What about me?" Rule 41: It''s not all about you 42 "Just once won''t hurt" Rule 42: Don''t let bad habits get a foot in the door 43 "Be spontaneous" Rule 43: Listen to the voices in your head 44 "Take one step at a time" Rule 44: If you want big things to change, you have to make big changes 45 "The best people will be there for you for life" Rule 45: People come and go, and it''s OK 46 "Enjoy yourself while you''re young" Rule 46: Your body is for life 47 "Borrowing is OK so long as you can pay it back" Rule 47: Don''t get into debt 48 "Be generous" Rule 48: Never lend money unless you''re prepared to write it off 49 "Believe you''re the best" Rule 49: Know your real worth 50 "Don''t allow people to make you feel bad" Rule 50: The only thing you can control is you 51 "Some people just get to you" Rule 51: No one can make you feel anything 52 "You can''t help how you feel" Rule 52: You feel what you think 53 "Actions speak louder than words" Rule 53: Don''t take anyone for granted 54 "Avoid unnecessary displays of emotion" Rule 54: Say thank you out loud 55 "The internet makes you anonymous" Rule 55: The Rules don''t stop online 56 "Always seek to improve yourself" Rule 56: Accept your shortcomings 57 "Strive for perfection" Rule 57: Perfection can be a handicap 58 "You are the product of your genes" Rule 58: You are the sum of your experiences (so make them good) 59 "Tomorrow is another day" Rule 59: How you spend your day is how you spend your life 60 "There aren''t enough hours in the day" Rule 60: Know your limitations 61 "Always get off on the right foot from the start" Rule 61: Bide your time to make a good impression 62 "Confident people know where they''re going" Rule 62: Everyone else is as lost as you 63 "Stand out from the crowd" Rule 63: There''s a fine line between being ubercool and being a total prat 64 "Appearances matter" Rule 64: Be happy with the way you look 65 "It''s just a drop in the ocean" Rule 65: The insignificant is important 66 "The job comes first" Rule 66: Don''t mistake your career for your life 67 "Get it all out in the open" Rule 67: Avoid conflict 68 "If you know you''re in the right, don''t back down" Rule 68: Don''t be afraid of compromise 69 "Some people are just asking for it" Rule 69: Keep the moral high ground 70 "It''s good to let your feelings out" Rule 70: Don''t trample on other people''s emotions 71 "No one is perfect" Rule 71: Be on the side of the angels, not the beasts 72 "Meet your deadlines" Rule 72: Keep ahead of deadlines 73 "Give good advice" Rule 73: Don''t give advice 74 "Let people know when you''re right" Rule 74: Never say ''I told you so'' 75 "Stick to what you''re good at" Rule 75: Stretch yourself 76 "You''ve a right to be treated fairly" Rule 76: Stop expecting life to be fair 77 "The more you learn about a subject, the more of an expert you become" Rule 77: The more you know, the more you don''t 78 "You can''t learn anything from a fool" Rule 78: Learn from other people''s mistakes 79 "If you''re going to do something, do it properly" Rule 79: You don''t have to jump in the deep end 80 "Stick with what you know" Rule 80: Step out of your comfort zone 81 "People will judge you by what you own" Rule 81: Don''t try to keep up with the Joneses 82 "Hide your mistakes" Rule 82: Remember, you could be wrong - someone has to be&.