Having a friend or family member come out to you as polyamorous can be confusing and stressful. Chances are, you have a lot of questions: Is this just a phase? Won t they settle down someday? What s going to happen to their kids? Do I have to invite all their partners over for Thanksgiving dinner? Why can t they just keep it in the bedroom? "When Someone You Love Is Polyamorous" offers answers to these and more questions, to help you better understand and support your polyamorous loved ones.".