"This highly accessible and very readable book is written for a broad readership - it might be said that it is written for every one of us. It explores the complex and multi-faceted experiences of adoption in a deeply thoughtful and emotionally compelling way. This is an important book on many levels - it will speak to child psychotherapists, professional colleagues, young people and families and it can add powerfully to the conversation with services, commissioners and policy makers." Marie Bradley , Child and Adolescent Psychotherapist. Extract from 'The Association of Child Psychotherapists' book review "Alison Roy is my go-to child and adolescent psychotherapist whenever I have a letter to reply to in my Guardian column which concerns adoption. Her ability, in particular, to put across the possible viewpoint of the child, is especially important and helpful to me; but her empathy and insight into the whole picture is fantastically useful and thought-provoking." Annalisa Barbieri, The Guardian "Adoption is a complex journey for all concerned. Drawing on extensive professional experience, this book is a must read for professionals and families alike.

" Liz Rugg, Assistant Director of Social Care for East Sussex "Adoption can provide children with the loving family home and future every child deserves. There will be challenges to children and their adoptive families along the way and that's why it's so important there is long-term therapeutic support in place to help children and adoptive families flourish." Anne Longfield, Children's Commissioner for England "Adoption is a lifelong intervention in a child's life with profound lifelong implications. The chapters in Roy's book sets out the issues that must be thought about, acted on and drive professional practice. It is a 'must read'." John Simmonds, OBE, Director of Policy, Research and Development at CoramBAAF.