This revised and expanded third edition of Before You Say "I Do" will help every bride and groom discover what they need to know about themselves, each other, and their marriage---before the wedding. Featuring questions designed to inspire in-depth conversations between future spouses, this book also invites parents, friends, future in-laws, clergy, and children from previous marriages into the discussions to offer their own perspectives. This revision reflects the changes that have taken place culturally and socially since the previous edition was published--as these relate to couples planning to marry. Some important shifts to note- Social media (including texting) has changed much of the dating scene and ways that couples communicate with each other. This definitely affects a couple's ability to communicate well in marriage (or not). Younger couples today are more savvy with regard to what they want from marriage, but they also have different trust issues than previous generations (internet being at the forefront of this). Finances (and in particular, debt) has now become an even larger concern and burden for younger couples planning to marry. With student debt at an all-time high, credit card debt, and a host of other financial quandaries, more advice and solid guidance is required.

Together, couples are encouraged to explore their life histories and experiences, their hopes and dreams, and their views on love, children, religion, work, and politics, to find both common and uncommon ground on which to strengthen the foundation of their marriage.