A great sex life is not the result of one magic thing. It's the product of many different stimulations working together soft kisses during foreplay, a sensually lit bedroom, sexy lace lingerie, the touch of warm bodies, and hearing a lover's voice. Guiding the reader step by step from silent to seductive, this helpful handbook shows women how talking dirty can create a wildly enhanced sexual experience without making them feel dirty or their lover feel uncomfortable. Sexy, flirty, and downright naughty talk can be the ultimate spice to one's love life, but many women aren't sure what to say in the heat of the moment. Featuring intimacy exercises for couples and a range of examples from innocent to extreme,The Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirtyshows how to bring more passion into one's sex life by incorporating seductive and titillating phrases that will send their lover's passion soaring. Having taught hundreds of women in her popular workshops, author Dr. Ruth Neustifter has first-hand experience showing women how to overcome natural shyness and how to balance the contradictory cultural expectations that require her to be both nice and dirty.