In these quotes, the author introduces some terse, witty and elevated brainteasers that can propel married couples and lovers to the heights of their marriage lives. The tile of the book is deliberate and intentional, a job . No-one should expect that marriage will only be an amusement park of emotional rollercoasters; marriage to be that, must be a job . It is, nevertheless, a pleasurable job, a work done with phenomenal rewards if successful. However, if neglected, marriage can be an unforgotten nightmare from which there may be no waking up.