".If you begin to work through Lancer's exercises on your own, you will likely gain self-knowledge. Think of the book as a launch point for eventually getting closer to your authentic self, rather than an immediate solution, and it may just help you with some codependency issues." --Megan Riddle, PsychCentral.com "It would be a shame not to give this book a try." --Danielle Stewart, Afterpartychat.com "I picked this book up so I could better understand codependency and the association of shame. In that, Lancer's book fulfilled my need for knowledge.

I was impressed with Lancer's breadth of understanding, the self-examination exercises throughout, and the information being shared within these pages." --Nina Longfield, luxuryreading.com "This book is definitely a worthy read as well as eye-opening in how shame toys and plays with us." -- Svetlana's Reads and Views , Svetla-randomblog.blogspot.com "I will keep this book with the rest of my resources that I found invaluable. In fact, I recommend this book to pretty much everyone." -- Literally Jen, literallyjen.

com " Conquering Shame and Codependency just might be a great companion to keep on your shelf." -- Patricia's Wisdom , patriciaswisdom.com "Teachers, family therapists, and school counselors will find this a good reference in identifying factors and solutions for those they may be concerned with assisting; and for anyone who has experienced the negative effects shame can produce, this book are recommended reading." -- My Bookshelf , shirley-mybookshelf.blogspot.com "An eye-opener and a good food for thought read." -- Bookish Ardour , bookishadour.com "I recommend this book if you are going through a trying time and are looking for answers.

" --Robyn Baldwin, robynbaldwin.com.