Many gay men enter midlife unprepared to face the,challenge of living in a youth-oriented culture.,In a warm, empathetic style, Isensee, author of,the bestselling 'Love Between Men', expertly,navigates readers through relevant issues such as,countering sterotypes, reaching closure with a,youthful identity, staying in shape, changes in,long-term relationships, sex, and learning to,embrace the positive aspects of ageing.