The Adults 1 They arrived in bulk, in Black Tie Preferred, in one large clump behind our wooden fence, peering over each other''s shoulders and into our backyard like people at the zoo who wanted a better view of the animals. My father''s fiftieth birthday party had just begun. It''s true that I was expecting something. I was fourteen, my hair still sticky with lemon from the beach, my lips maroon and pulpy and full like a woman''s, red and smothered like "a giant wound," my mother said earlier that day. She disapproved of the getup, of my yellow fit-and-flare dress that cradled my hips and pointed my breasts due north, but I didn''t care; I disapproved of this party, this whole at-home affair that would mark the last of its kind. The women walked through the gate in black and blue and gray and brown pumps, the party already proving unsuccessful at the grass level. The men wore sharp dark ties like swords and said predictable things like, "Hello." "Welcome to our lawn," I said back, with a goofy grin, and none of them looked me in the eye because it was rude or something.
I was too yellow, too embarrassing for everyone involved, and I inched closer to Mark Resnick, my neighbor, my maybe-one-day-boyfriend. I stood up straighter and overemphasized my consonants. There were certain ways you had to position and prepare your body for high school, and I was slowly catching on, but not fast enough. Every day, it seemed, I had to say good-bye to some part of myself; like last week at the beach, my best friend, Janice, in her new shoestring bikini, had looked down at my Adidas one-piece and said, "Emily, you don''t need a one-piece anymore. This isn''t a sporting event." But it sort of was. You could win or lose at anything when you were fourteen, and Janice was keeping track of this. First person to say "cunt" in two different languages (Richard Trenton, girls'' bathroom, cunnus, kunta ), an achievement that Ernest Bingley decried as invalid since "Old Norse doesn''t count as a language!" (Ernest Bingley, first person ever to cry while reading a poem aloud in English class, "Dulce et Decorum Est").
There were other competitions as well, competitions that had only losers, like who''s got the fattest ass (Annie Lars), the most cartoonish face (Kenneth Bentley), the most pubes (Janice Nicks). "As a child, I shaved the hair off my Barbies to feel prettier," Janice had confessed earlier that morning at the beach. She sighed and wiped her brow as though it was the August heat that made her too honest, but Connecticut heat was disappointingly civil. So were our confessions. "That''s nothing," I said. "As a child, I thought my breasts were tumors." I whispered, afraid the adults could hear us. Janice wasn''t impressed.
"Okay, as a child, I sat out in the sun and waited for my blood to evaporate," I said. I admitted that, sometimes, I still believed blood could vanish like boiling water or a puddle in the middle of summer. But Janice was already halfway into her next confession, admitting that last night, she touched herself and thought of our middle school teacher Mr. Heller despite everything, even his mustache. "Which we can''t blame him for," Janice said. "I thought of Mr. Heller''s hands and then waited, and then nothing. No orgasm.
" "What''d you expect?" I said, shoving a peanut in my mouth. "He''s so old." At the beach, the adults always sat ten feet behind our towels. We carefully measured the distance in footsteps. My mother and her friends wore floppy straw hats and reclined in chairs patterned with Rod Stewart''s face and neon ice cream cones and shouted, "Don''t stick your head under!" as Janice and I ran to the water''s edge to cool our feet. My mother said sticking your head in the Long Island Sound was like dipping your head in a bowl of cancer, to which I said, "You shouldn''t say ''cancer'' so casually like that." A woman who volunteered with my mother at Stamford Hospital, the only woman there who had not gotten a nose job from my neighbor Dr. Trenton, held her nose whenever she said "Long Island Sound" or "sewage," as if there was no difference between the two things.
But the more everybody talked about the contamination, the less I could see it; the farther I buried my body in the water, the more the adults seemed to be wrong about everything. It was water, more and more like water every time I tested it with my tongue. Our backyard was so full of tiger lilies, nearly every guest at the party got their own patch to stand near. Mark ran his hands over the orange flower heads, while my mother opened her arms to greet his mother, Mrs. Resnick. My mother and Mrs. Resnick had not spoken in months for no other reason than they were neighbors who did not realize they had not spoken in months. "Italians hug," my mother said.
"We''re Russian Jewish," Mrs. Resnick said. "Oh, that''s dear," my mother said, and looked at me. "Say hello, Emily." "Hello," I said. It was unknown how long it had been since they borrowed an egg from each other, but it didn''t even matter because my mother noticed how tall Mark had become. "Very tall," my mother said. "Yes, isn''t he tall?" Mrs.
Resnick asked. "How tall are you, Mark?" my mother asked. Everybody suspected he was taller than he used to be, but shorter than our town councilwoman, Mrs. Trenton, who was so tall she looked like King Kong in a belted pink party dress observing a mushroom garlic cream tart for the first time. She was so tall it only made sense she was granted a position of authority in our town, my mother said once. And Mark was a little bit shorter than that, in a very small, unnoticeable way. Most of the adults stood at the bar. Some reported flying in from Prague, Geneva, Moscow, and couldn''t believe the absurdity of international travel-it took so long to get from here to there, especially when all you were doing over the Atlantic was worrying about blood clots, feeling everything clumping and slowing and coming to an end.
Some needed to use the bathroom. Some couldn''t believe how the roads were so wide here in Connecticut and, honestly, what did we need all that space for? "It''s presumptuous," said Mrs. Resnick. She took a sip of her martini while a horsefly flew out of her armpit. "So much space and nothing to do but take care of it." I looked around at the vastness of my yard. It was the size of two pools, and yet, we didn''t even have one. My mother had joked all summer long that if my father wanted to turn fifty, he would have to do the damn thing outside on the grass.
We had all laughed around the dinner table, and with a knife in my fist, I shouted out, "Like the dog!" "If we had one . ," my father said, correcting me. "It''s the nineties," my mother added. "Backyards in Connecticut are just starting to come back in style." But soon, it turned out it wasn''t a joke at all, and at any given moment my mother could be caught with a straight face saying things like, "We''ll need to get your father a tent in case of rain," and after I hung up on Timmy''s Tent Rental, she started saying things like, "We''ll need three hundred and fifty forks," and my father and I started exchanging secret glances, and when my mother saw him scribble THAT''S A LOT OF FORKS to me on a Post-it, she started looking at us blankly, like my father was the fridge and I was the microwave, saying, "We''ll need a theme." "Man, aging dramatically!" I shouted at them across the marble kitchen counter. "And a cake designed to look like an investment banker." She wrote it down on a list, her quick cursive more legible than my print.
"No! A map of Europe!" I said. "And everybody has to eat their own country!" "No, Emily," my mother said. "That''s not right either." Everybody was invited. Was Alfred available? Alfred was our neighbor who always gave the comical speech about my father''s deep-seated character flaws at every social event that was primarily devoted to my father, which was every event my mother attended. "Like how he questions my choice of hat at seven thirty in the morning," my mother said, as though my father wasn''t there pouring himself some cereal. "It''s just that the brim is so notably wide, he says. Well, that''s the point, Victor !" Or how he called the Prague office with a mouthful of Cocoa Puffs every morning and my mother said, Victor, you''re a millionaire, that''s gross, and my father chomped louder, said, it''s puffed rice .
He just doesn''t get it, my mother said. He walks out to the car every morning and comes back in asking me how is it that a car can get so dirty! At some point, they always turned to me, the third party. "Emily, would you explain to your father?" my mother asked. "Well, Jesus, Victor! We drive it!" I shouted. I never considered the possibility that we weren''t joking. "Isn''t Emily so beautiful?" my mother asked Mrs. Resnick, twisting her gold tennis bracelet around her wrist. My mother asked this question everywhere we went.
The grocery store. The mall. The dentist. Nobody had yet disagreed, though the opinion of the dentist was still pending. "Don''t you think that if the dentist really thinks I am beautiful he can notice it on his own?" I had asked my mother once, fed up with the prompt. "Don'.