"A wise and helpful book." -- Frederic Luskin, Ph.D., Director, Stanford Forgiveness Projects and author of Forgive for Good "Joshua Coleman's book is a gift, offering extraordinary wisdom coupled with practical advice." -- Steven Mintz, Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences and author of Huck's Raft: A History of American Childhood "An especially healing, practical resource.for anyone exhausted by strained, hurtful relationships with their adolescent or grown child." -- --Dr. Linda Nielsen, Professor of Adolescent Psychology & Women's Studies, Wake Forest University and author of Embracing Your Father: Building the Relationship You Always Wanted With Your Dad "I LOVE this book.

[It] is written from such a realistic and compassionate perspective that it is heart-warming." -- Hara Estroff Marano, Editor at Large, Psychology Today; author of A Nation of Wimps "Exceptionally perceptive." -- --Stephanie Coontz, Author of Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage and The Way We Never Were "A superb treatment.a unique and groundbreaking approach.an eyeopening read for anyone." -- Library Journal (starred review) "Coleman's focus is on helping the parent cope and carry on.an engaging read despite the serious subject matter." -- Publishers Weekly "An important book that can help parents heal.

" -- Baltimore Sun ".desperately needed. a truly great book for parents, and a great book for therapists who work with families." -- --Heather Folsom, M.D., author and adult and child psychiatrist "This is an incredibly insightful and sensitively written analysis of a difficult subject.I have recommended it to many of my clients. I highly recommend it to all parents who hurt.

" -- --Jan Levine, Ph.D., co-author of Why Do Fools Fall in Love?.