"Ball trains his keen, compassionate and judicious legal mind on heart-tugging, often precedent-setting cases that sought to divest parental custody, visitation and adoption decisions of centuries of gender and sexual bias in US family jurisprudence. This beautiful, wise book documents and helps to guide this momentous legal transformation in contemporary definitions of parenthood. An invaluable, engaging and eloquent contribution to family studies, legal thought, and public knowledge." -Judith Stacey,author of Unhitched: Love, Marriage and Family Values from West Hollywood to Western China"If the adage is true that those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it, then Carlos Ball's book will be a tremendous antidote to a hard and painful history. Uninformed and bigoted assumptions about sexual orientation had devastating consequences for many families. No one who reads this important work will fail to appreciate that the gains we have made in greater protection and security for our families came at a very high price for those parents and children who paved the way."-Kate Kendell, Esq.,Executive Director, National Center for Lesbian Rights"Unique and essential, Professor Ball's book recounts compelling tales of lesbian and gay parents fighting in the courts for rights that most Americans take for granted.

The narratives make little-known histories available even to readers with no legal training, and they also provide clear explanations of legal issues that have been at stake. A wonderful contribution, this volume should be of special interest to lesbian and gay parents and their children as well as to all those who care about them."-Charlotte J. Patterson,University of Virginia"Ball provides a solid reference for both those arguing in favor of LGBTQ parental rights and those seeking to understand the legal arguments advanced by those advocating for them."-Reba Kennedy,Library Journal"This book sheds light on the dark underbelly of hidden American history. I imagine that this book would be an amazing read for LGBT families. As a straight American, I learned a lot and have a whole new appreciation for the struggle of gay rights."-Jennifer Melville,City Book Review.