Written from the perspective of older persons, this book puts forth the notion that these voices are as important and as necessary as those of a gerontologist's when documenting the aging experience. There are a number of contradictions between the "realities" of aging produced by professionals and the subjective experiences of older persons as they live their everyday lives. The authors began with collecting literature about aging and for aging populations. They then conducted a series of focus groups and used questionnaires in an attempt to supplement the published information. Personal stories provide depth to the contrast between what it means to grow older and what is really experienced. These stories are generously dispersed throughout the text and come from a number of different perspectives, including Black and Mi'k Maq communities. The authors seek to overcome the "us" and "them" dichotomy that characterizes much of the literature on aging. By asking older people to talk of their experiences and treat this information as holding value, the authors have presented a tool that can be used to begin such a process.